Persoonlijke noot Marjolein

Geen contact opnemen

Vriendelijk verzoek om geen contact op te nemen, ook niet even kort aanspreken op straat.
Het is uiteraard heel goed bedoeld. Maar ik heb er geen tijd voor en geen energie en ben te emotioneel.

Voor degenen die toch niet lijken te begrijpen, hoe het is als je man/vader zo ziek is, 2,5 maand in het ziekenhuis ligt, waarvan 26 dagen op de intensive care: het is loodzwaar. En ik heb echt geen tijd, ook niet voor “eventjes” een telefoontje van “maar” 5 minuten. Mijn schoonouders bel ik iedere dag 2 x echt lang, er zijn een paar vriendinnen die altijd mogen komen, maar het mij altijd toch eerst vragen. Daarnaast zijn er familieleden van wie ik steun krijg.

Ik maak lange dagen in het ziekenhuis. Dat varieert, afhankelijk van hoe het gaat. Soms dagen van slechts 6 uur, soms ga ik 2 x per dag, dan eet ik thuis met het gezin, ’s avonds weer terug. Meestal blijf ik heel lang, een uur of 9.
Bij paniek kan ik in het UMC blijven slapen. Gisteren was ik er half 11 in de ochtend. ’s Avonds kwart voor 11 thuis.


En hoe zwaar het ook is en hoeveel moeite het me kost, ik houd altijd het blog bij.  En dat doe ik voor jullie informatie, en niet omdat dat voor mij “therapeutisch” zou werken. Echt niet.


Daarnaast nog even de waarschuwing, dat ik heel bot kan reageren, als iemand mij goed bedoeld aanraakt, een arm om mijn schouder slaat, mij een goed bedoelde knuffel wil geven. “AFBLIJVEN”. Het is in het belang van Dolf, dat ons gezin geen virussen/bacteriën e.d. aan hem doorgeeft. En ik moet op de been blijven. 

Dolf is heel kwetsbaar en moet niet nog meer ziektes oplopen.

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  33. Hmmm jammen hvis nu bare det var frivilligt? Det er unfair at presse sådan noget ned over hovedet på folk som virkeligt ikke har lyst.Det er jo heller ikke obligatorisk at holde børnefødselsdag hjemme hvis ikke man orker det..Du må jo lave nogle nye nisser

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  36. Which Africans? Most Black Americans descend from West Africans, and Africans differ. There are plenty of black Africans in South Africa but when did a South African win a Olympic medal in the 100 meter dash. When did an actual West African win an Olympic medal in the 100 meter dash? Never, that's when. In fact in the recent Olympics the combined countries of West Africa collected zero medals.

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  38. Good stuff Nolan. I was with a pastor yesterday that was getting hassled by a wealthy family in his church about allowing some people to tell their giving stories. No numbers, just stories. I asked him if the wealthy family were generous to the church. As usual, they weren’t. Most people who squeak about a giving message are squeaking someone’s on their toes!

  39. Es cierto que cuando el frío ya se deja notar y las horas de luz al día se reducen tanto ,apetece más disfrutar del interior del hogar pero con ese exterior quién es capaz de resistirse a disfrutar de un ricón tan acogedor,yo desde luego no podría!!…unas imágenes preciosas.Un abrazo muy fuerte ,feliz mes de noviembre Cecilia.

  40. Simplesmente nos apetece fazer como o poeta que fechando os olhos se deixa guiar pelos olhos do coração e vive fazendo o bem e por esse testemunho vai transformando o seu mundo e dessa forma os outros mundos. Um forte abraço JE

  41. progressive double standard … you are doing the very same thingHuh?Looking for a unifying theory (The Tenth Parallel … the Fault Line Between Christianity and Islam) to explain many different conflicts is not the same as focusing on a single conflict.

  42. Great rebuttal Ben. It is important in terms of building awareness of these issues that they are brought to the forefront and discussed by serious thinkers such as yourself. As you write, Kurzweil's predictions may be critiqued when viewed explicitly, and on a tight reading of the specifics, but if one takes a broader viewpoint, they are remarkably accurate.

  43. Mom – thanks for the note. The ship that we are looking at would be able to transport Shearwater with the mast up, and the estimated transit is approximately 4 weeks. They have windows of time, so we’ll have to be ready to get the boat to the pick-up area and then when it arrives, hustle down to Fort Lauderdale to move it up to Texas!

  44. SalutariProfiart , asa cum ii spune si numele, inseamna pentru mine profesionalism imbinat in arta. Am gasit intotdeauna la voi ce-am avut nevoie pentru a-mi pune in practica ideile creative. Bafta multa pe mai departe si pentru mine ramaneti no. 1 Cu prietenie,Nico

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